I feel weird about a guy touching me.

Preferences about who touches your body are legitimate — full stop. Whether your reasons are cultural, personal, or connected to past harm, you don't owe anyone a detailed explanation. The discomfort of working with someone who doesn't feel safe undermines the work.

How We Approach It

We take gender requests seriously and honor them when scheduling allows. We maintain clear consent practices and draping standards with every therapist, so you always have real choices about what is and isn't on the table — regardless of who you're working with.

What to Discuss With Your Therapist

Let the front desk know your preference when you book so we can do our best to match you. You can also talk with your LMT before the session about draping, clothed options, or areas that are off-limits — none of that requires a reason.

Between-Session Considerations

If a preferred therapist isn't available for a particular appointment, it's always fine to wait for the right fit rather than compromise your comfort.

Learn More

Explore the Ongoing Research Review Blog, book a session focused on this concern, or reach out with questions specific to your situation.